How to get better at hookup?

Have you ever had an awful hookup experience that you are so regret and wish that you can do it all over again. However, you can't change your past experience. All you can do is to do better at the next one. So here are some tips for you to get better at hookup. If you are interested, keep reading.

First of all, take it slow. One good thing about one night hookup is high efficiency. You can meet anywhere, a bar, a night club, a coffee shop or an online hookup app for one night stand. You don't even need to have a conversation before you are invited to her bedroom. Sometimes, it only takes an eye contact. Then boom! You are in. No matter how you meet and how fast you agree on having a one night stand, you should take it slow when you are in bed.

You can't expect her to get naked and beg you to give it to her as soon as you are in bed. Try to work it slowly from her lips, her waist, her hair and then to some other private parts. For girls, foreplay is just as important as the real show. Sometimes, it's even much more significant in a successful one night stand. So this is tip number one. Just don't rush anything.

Second of all, mentally prepared for a connection that won't last long. For one night stand, you should make sure you are really ready for it. Sometimes, the fact that you want it doesn't always mean you are prepared for it. Think it through. Are you ready for it? Are you going to regret after it? To figure this out, you might want to start with the reason why you want to have a quick one night stand. Is it for getting over a bad breakup? Is it the action you want to take to revenge on your boyfriend? Or is it to kill loneliness? Be honest with yourself and make sure it doesn't turn to be a huge mistake.

Second of all, make sure you are really a "one-night stand" person. That is to say, you should be okay with the physical outcome after you had a one night hook up with someone. Having one night stand doesn't make you a slut, but if you don't feel comfortable with it, maybe you should retreat.

Third, enjoy yourself. Always remember the first rule of having a one night stand. Be happy and enjoy it. Forget about making your partner happy. Forget about the rules and tips. As long as you are not hurting your partner, enjoy all the pleasure you can get to the fullest. An essential symbol for a good one night stand is that you are having fun. If you are having fun, your partner is probably too.