Signs Can Tell That The Girl is Seeing Someone

The dynamics of dating are getting more complicated. There is something new every now and then. Just when you think you have a pretty good handle on the dating world, something new comes along. One of the ongoing trends is dating several people at the same time. It is especially true on dating sites and dating apps, such as the hinge dating app, the bumble dating app, and the tinder dating app.

According to one study, this type of relationship is giving backup options for potential romantic interest. A person is constantly in contact with each other but does not commit to the relationship or romantic relationship. The relationship is heartbreaking, leaving the recipient in the position of a backup boyfriend or girlfriend.

• Any confrontation leads to a dramatic reaction.

Every time you try to confront her patterns of behavior, she ends up crying and being unreasonably dramatic. Even if you try to break up with her, she will use every trick in the book to keep you committed to her so-called relationship. It's just that she wants to keep you in the loop as long as she can, as her backup plan. Don't let this behavior sway you or fill you with the fear of losing her. For your happy dating and happiness, you need to know what she wants from the relationship.

• She backed out of the plan at the last minute.

Every time you make a plan to do something together, more often she cancels at the last minute in case something needs her attention. For example, you planned something nice for both of you, like a romantic date. But her friend is going to a party. She thought the latter would be more fun. So she didn't hesitate to cancel her plans with you. You spend a lot of time and money on this.

But she didn't take into account your efforts. Of course, under certain circumstances, other commitments take precedence over our love life. But if this behavior is the norm rather than the exception, you're not her priority. The sooner you realize that this is a worrying sign of dating someone else, the better it will be for you.

• Dating her became expensive.

When you're not her boyfriend, you're also considered a cash cow. If she's behind on her rent or can't afford the shoes she really needs, she'll come to you and ask you for help. When you go out together, she doesn't throw herself at you. She wants you to pay for the movie, dinner, etc. So her focus is not on building a good physical and emotional connection with you, but on how to benefit from being with you.

• She compares you to other men.

The girl who has been dating other guys may be constantly comparing you to other men in her life. She will constantly find flaws in you and use them to make you feel inadequate and small. If you do something for her, she'll tell you how her man's best friend does it better. If you take her somewhere, she'll tell you how the other person planned a better date. Everything you do isn't good enough. She's gonna keep belittling you.

• She doesn't share things with you.

Her accomplishments, joy, fear, worry, vulnerability. She doesn't share them with you. You live with the nagging feeling that she is emotionally distant and that you are not her first choice. It's one of the unmistakable signs that she thinks you can only be a backup. She may be dealing with a professional or personal crisis. And you'll find out in a few weeks, not when she's stressed. She just wants your attention. She is not yours. She is dating someone else.

• Her social media is flooded with other men.

When not only is there no exclusivity, but there is a swarm of other men competing with it, you can be sure that she is dating and flirting with other people. Although she is reluctant to post anything about the two of you on social media, her account is full of photos and posts about these other men. This probably means that the people in her life are part of her backup plan, or worse. it's the choice she's pursuing while keeping you as a backup lover.